Should we always forgive the people we love? When do their mistakes become too much for us to handle and we walk away? The recent story of DJ Raqi Terra‘s “Secret Files” highlights these questions when a woman found it hard to escape the arms of her abusive boyfriend.
After introducing herself as Bangs, the letter sender began sharing the story that has infuriated a lot of netizens. Bangs said that she met her ex-boyfriend when they were still in high-school because she dated one of his friends.
They would drink, hang out, and sleep at Bangs’ house often and they developed a great friendship. But she lost contact with him when they graduated. Surprisingly though, this man transferred to the college where Bangs was studying and they even had the same course. Of course, both Bangs and her ex-boyfriend have the same group of friends so they would hang out often.
One night, they walked home together and the man suddenly confessed his feelings for Bangs. She thought it was a joke and brushed it off. Circumstances happened and it resulted in the letter sender being a single mother of two.
Luckily, she found work and there was one time that she was unable to go home because of the heavy rain. A knight in shining armor came to her rescue and Bangs saw that it was her ex-boyfriend, asking if she would like to go home together since they live near each other. This led to a major catch-up session and things became good.
Bangs fell in love but things got really complicated before they officially got together. She thought that everything was good until the time that he physically hit her because of an argument. He would choke and punch her, it even came to a point when he tried to run her over with his car. But Bangs, out of her love for him, decided to look past it and forgive him.
This man made her go through hell and she still held on until it was her ex-boyfriend who told her that they were over. Now, Bangs is having a tough time moving on from the person who has done her wrong.
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Do you think that this lady’s suffering is only because of her abusive partner? What do you think are the reasons why victims of abuse find it hard to leave the relationship? Share your thoughts, reactions, and opinions in the comments section below!